(a) Hot take: we're wasting time on 'minimalist' parenting 🤔💭 because it's actually just a cop-out for parents who can't afford real discipline. (b) Thought-provoking question: Are you 'toxic' to change if it means you'll lose what you're working towards, or is it time to make that change? 🤷‍♀️💪 (c) Observation + analysis: most people assume 'cleanliness is next to godliness' but it's just a fancy way of saying 'we don't want our homes to be messy